BASIC / PHYSICAL:
1. Full name:
2. Notable meaning(s):
3. Do they like it?:
4. Weight / build / healthy or not?:
5. Notable physical flaws, marks, abnormalities (even just perceived):
6. Taste in clothes:
7. How they smile (Under what circumstances does it vary?):
8. “Tell” for lying:
9. Posture:
10. Volume of speech:
11. Most expressive parts of the body:
12. Eye contact & comfort level:
13. Etiquette (holding doors open, use of language in different scenarios, handshakes):
14. How close do they stand to others in a small or large group? Do they walk through a crowd or around? Other common behaviors in social settings:
15. Nonverbal communication (talking with hands, crossing arms, hands in pockets, hyper expressive face, etc):
16. Common nonverbal greeting (ignore, high five, wave, polite nod, etc):
17. How do they indicate nonverbally? (Point, nod, clear throat, raise hand, etc):


PERSONALITY:
1. Good habits:
2. Bad habits:
3. Drugs / alcohol / smoking (& associated reasons):
4. What do they do too much, or too little of?:
5. Best thing in life (present):
6. Worst thing (present):
7. Significant early traumas or core wounds:
8. Notable, seemingly insignificant memories:
9. Deepest fears:
10. Daredevil or cautious:
11. Is this subjective to having company or being alone?:
12. Spirituality / Religion:
13. What makes them laugh?:
14. What doesn’t?:
15. What embarrasses them?:
16. Common emotional reactions (whoops when excited, snorting when amused, etc):
17. Nervous / anxious tics:
18. Deflection / coping behaviors:
19. Comfort gestures & self touches:
20. Other comfort methods / modalities (safe spaces, comfort food, activities, etc):
21. Worst thing that could happen to them:
22. Would it ‘break’ them? If no, what would, or what else would?:
23. What would they give their life for?:
24. Personality flaws:
25. What are they reluctant to tell people, or have known?:
26. How do they feel about themselves:
27. Selfish or selfless (if both, under which circumstances?):
28. How do they want to project themselves, vs. how do they actually project?:
29. What would they make a public scene about?:
30. What, if anything, would drive them to violence? To what degree?:
31. False beliefs & hypocrisies, if any:


SKILLS / VOCATION / LEISURE:
1. Extremely skilled at:
2. Extremely unskilled at:
3. Favorite hobbies, sports, pastimes:
4. Do they work to support hobbies, or use hobbies to fill time between work?:
5. As a child, what career did they want as an adult? If they aren’t doing that, why?:
6. Financial situation. Are they comfortable with this?:
7. Spending habits:
8. Ideally how would they spend a stormy day?:
9. Ideally, how would they spent a long weekend?:
10. Taste in music:
11. Taste in art:
12. If any, which hobbies, leisure activities (etc) are of little interest, or repel them?:


RELATIONS:
1. Family situation:
2. Favorite family member:
3. Least favorite:
4. Would they consider themselves a ‘good’ child/sibling, etc?:
5. Do they have a role model? Whom, and why:
6. Friend situation:
7. Would they consider themselves a ‘good’ friend?:
8. Strengths as a friend:
9. Shortcomings:
10. Primary platonic Love Language (verbal, acts of service, physical touch, gifting, quality time):
11. Primary romantic Love Language:
12. Sexuality / romantic identity:
13. Opinion on relationships:
14. Opinion on sex:
15. Have they been in love? Details:
16. If it ended, who called it quits and why:
17. Top three things they’d look for in a partner:
18. “Dealbreakers” (physical, ethical, habits, personality, etc):
19. Dating habits / history (serial monogamist, ‘bad luck’ streak, primarily single, etc. Why?):
20. In flirting, do they make the first move?:
21. Turn ons, turn offs, kinks (any associated reasons or experiences?):
22. Best / worst standout romantic or sexual experience(s)?:
23. Additional notes: